Based on a respected study of 200 organizations, it is suggested that two-thirds of the difference between average and exceptional employees is due to relational skills. The Center for Creative Leadership also says that the primary cause for career derailment involves deficits in emotional competence – including difficulty in handling change, weak team skills and poor interpersonal capabilities.
People skills are at the heart of personal and collective success in the public or private sectors, in service-delivery environments or in multi-functional project teams. The communication technologies that allow us to transmit masses of information can degrade our relational skills and our ability to catch the nuances of human interaction and understanding.
Increasingly, career success depends on self-awareness, social maturity and the ability to use our relational skills while avoiding extremes of behaviour. A strength that is used to excess can become a “career blocker.” The following list illustrates how a strength can be seen as a career blocker if not used wisely:
STRENGTH CAREER BLOCKER?
Responsive Too easily influenced
Careful Too Cautious
Free thinker Eccentric
Sensitive Too emotional
Thorough Too slow
Bill B., a Senior Consultant and Instructor with PMC Training, notes that learning to maximize our relational skills, while avoiding career blockers, requires what is now referred to as emotional intelligence. The components of emotional intelligence include self-awareness, emotional self-control, self-motivation, social awareness and social skills. Through his extensive international experience in the private and public sectors, Bill has observed how the development of these competencies can leverage strengths and unblock careers.
PMC offers three open enrollment workshops that will help you build your emotional intelligence, find the right balance, and advance your career:
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What is Emotional Intelligence?
Emotional intelligence and understanding yourself.
5 Key EQ Skills for Happiness and Success
Key skills for raising your emotional intelligence.